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Sunday, 4 May 2014 ❛ Happiness. ❜ Hi. Before I begin, I just wanna say something first. You don't see me updating my blog very often because I only blog when I have this strong feeling to do so. I don't blog to get more readers or to become popular or whatsoever. I blog because there's something in my heart that I do need to get it out. It's also something where I feel I can help others who are in the same situation as I am. Anyway, there are some people who have been really encouraging in my life that keeps me going. 1 is an anon on askfm like 2 months ago and the other is YeeBin. I didn't know my life can actually make a difference in others. Thank you so much! :) Alright, gonna start on today's topic now. Let me start off by asking a question. When was the last time you looked at someone and you start judging him/her. Or should I say, how many people do you judge a day just by looking at them? Many of us have this problem, we tend to judge people based on their appearance or some of the things they do. I'm no different. I'm probably getting judged by some people for blogging this too. The purpose of this post is to try and change everyone's mindset, including my own. Hopefully it helps! :) If you want to judge someone, you''ll have to be perfect. You''ll have to know the person's story and understand what he/she has been through too. Well, that's kinda impossible. No one in this world is perfect, everyone has their own imperfection. But we''re still judging people even though we have our imperfections and why? That's because of our ego. Well, actually judging is like a natural thing to all humans so what do we do? A few steps to be happy and also live in a better World. Firstly, you can't really stop people from judging us. But you can start making a change by first, LOVING YOURSELF and also have SELF CONFIDENCE. People can judge you and say many negative things about you but if you love yourself and also have confidence in yourself, their remarks won't be able to bring you down.You just have to look in the mirror, smile and be happy with who you are. You just have to simply accept it. Ultimately, people love you because of your attitude and not how good looking you are. Secondly, ACCEPTANCE. When you have finally love yourself and feel confident about yourself, you''ll start having this attitude towards others too. Love and accept them for who they are. Everyone has their own story and sometimes its not easy to put ourselves in their shoes to feel what they have gone through. I always believed that there's something we can learn from everyone you meet. Let's start having this mindset and accept people for who they are. When you do, you''ll start to see your life in a different perspective. I really can't explain this in words, you''ll just have to put it into action and start experiencing it. Lastly, FORGIVE. This is probably the hardest part about this post that I''ll have to type. Forgiving others can be really difficult at times. I really dislike/hate some people for the things that they do to me. Whenever, I think of them/ the things they do, I get upset and pissed off. I dislike the feeling that I get when I think about it ( you have it too right?) but I always can't bring myself to forgive them. However, today I learnt something. ''Forgiveness creates a space to let go and love.'' I have lost a friend because she made a mistake and refused to apologize sincerely. But then, I saw this on twitter, '' Forgive them even if they''re not sorry.'' after much thinking, it has changed my mindset. I feel that forgiveness will make you happy while bearing a grudge towards someone will only make you more upset. Try forgiving and start feeling the love and happiness enter your life. Alright, that's just a few steps I feel would make you, yourself a happier person and also make our world a better place. Not sure if you guys realize, all the things I mentioned starts from yourself. To be able to be happy, you''ll have to work on yourself. To make this world a better one, you''ll have to be the one making the difference first. It all starts from you. If you guys read all my post, you guys should know that I blog about personal experiences and what I learnt from it most of the time. This time round, I decided to keep my personal stories to myself. Basically, I learnt a lot from these points that's why I decided to blog about it yeah, just without personal example to share because I don't know how to talk about it hahaha. #LongStory HOPE THIS POST IS USEFUL :D I feel like there's no flow in this post. :( bye la whatever, I'm tired. Took 2 hours to type this. It's 4am now and I have to wake up at 530 for school.

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